One of the interesting things about the God we serve is that He never forces us to receive anything good from Him. He respects our free will so much that He holds back even when He really longs to wrap His arms of love around us.
An example is in Matthew 23:37 where Jesus overcome with emotion at the impending doom of Jerusalem cried out,
"Jerusalem, Jerusalem, you who kill the prophets and stone those sent to you, how often I have longed to gather your children together, as a hen gathers her chicks under her wings, and you were not willing. Behold, your house is being left to you desolate!”
Jesus is the saviour, but He only offers salvation to those who want Him
to save them. Not only that, He wants joyful, trusting obedience from those who need it. I can imagine Him saying, “Are you
willing to do everything I tell you to make you whole? Do you trust me that I
have your best interest at heart?"